True, Real, Lasting Love

So this week, here in the beautiful land of Utah, is BYU Education Week where thousands of people from all over the world come to be edified and uplifted spiritually. The myriad of classes range from marriage and family, to finances, addiction recovery, blended families, to just plain doctrinal concepts. It's a time for reflection upon life, and learning through the Holy Ghost of how our own personal life can be more meaningful and happier. Yes, we all do this on our own from time to time, but coming to Education Week offers a unique way of learning that lights a fire that burns bright and long to make those necessary changes.

I love to listen to S. Michael Wilcox because of the "principles" he pulls out from just about every scripture story there is, in every book of scripture (Old Testament, New Testament, Book of Mormon, Doctrine and Covenants, and the Pearl of Great Price). I love that he shares with us what we can learn from each account. For example, the story of Elijah in 1 Kings 19:1-21. Elijah is extremely discouraged about life so he goes away to hide.           S. Michael Wilcox calls this the "Sitting Under the Juniper Tree" principle. He finds a juniper tree and sits under it and asks the Lord if he can just die. He's tired of his circumstances and wants to give up. So the Lord sends an angel to nourish and strengthen him, and what does he do, he gets up and travels a long distance only to go hide in a cave. Now this is despair we have all felt in our own lives, or maybe I'm just speaking for myself. The Lord asks him, what are you doing here? You'll have to read it to find out the rest of the story, but the point here is that sometimes we linger too long in the valley of sorrow, despair, or discouragement. The Lord wants us to be happy, it's OK to GO THERE, but to linger long is not. He sends us comfort in those valleys, but sometimes we don't want to accept it...we just want to linger there. When he thinks it's been long enough he will ask of us to get up, act, do, and get out of the cave and from under the Juniper tree. Another wonderful point S. Michael Wilcox brought up was in verse 12 about the still small voice (Holy Ghost). The Lord is within whispering distance(very near) in our juniper tree, cave moments; therefore, we can hear that still small voice. OK so now you see why I love listening to him.

I learned many principles as I listened to three hours worth of his lectures, but I only wish to share what the Holy Ghost taught me on my drive home from Education Week. In the last lecture he talked a lot about his deceased wife. She recently passed away and his heart is very tender for her. He spoke of this love and bond he has with her; something I know nothing about. I have never known that kind of love that should exist between a covenant wife and husband. I started feeling a little depressed about that, especially on the drive home. I thought, wow I've lived 38 years and have never experienced that true, deep spousal love, how sad for me. Then the Holy Ghost reminded me of something very important : I have almost daily experience with a true, real, lasting love that is greater than spousal love. It is the LOVE from Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. I do know of their love and it is real, it is lasting, it is sustaining, it encompasses everything. It has power to make us feel whole, special, even divine. What greater love could we ever experience...none! If we have their love we can do anything, be anything. The relationship we have with Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ should be our utmost priority because then we have the potential to experience the greatest riches we can know on earth, the merging of two souls into one, that spousal love.

Joshua's surgery

We have been fortunate not to have had many surgeries since Josh was born. He of course had his myelomeningocele repaired 24hrs. after he was born (putting the spine into the back and closing it up). He had his VP shunt placed one month after he was born because of  Arnold Chiari malformation which causes hydrocephalus, and that's been the extent of his surgeries. I chose for him to get a cecostomy(ACE) while he's young so he can avoid embarrassing social situations because of his bowel incontinence. This will allow him continence and also to not have to wear pull-ups for the rest of his life. I'm sure he will thank me for it when he's older. The surgery went well!  He's been at Primary Children's hospital. Can I just say that this hospital rocks. They have this way cool Forever Young Zone for patient's and their siblings to come play and do craft projects and just have fun. Last night we made volcanoes and had fun watching them erupt. They have a nice parent resource room too that's full of snacks, there are computers to use, and literature to read. They definitely make the patients and families feel like it's a second home. The doctor and all the nurses have been great. Here are some pictures of Josh before and after surgery.

                                                Pre-surgery- Josh with his Chipmunk crew

 

                                             Two of my brother's came to visit me!

I am hoping to bring him home Saturday. Thank you everyone for your prayers and well wishes.

Jumpin' Jahosaphat...it's July!

So July is a big month for our family because there are 3 birthdays.
This year they are big deal birthdays, at least two of them. My oldest will turn 13 and be an official teenager.

 The second oldest will be 12, big deal in the church because of Priesthood ordination, Boy Scouts, and graduation from Primary.

I can't believe how quickly they grow up. In a few short years they will be serving missions, and I will be officially OLD, but for now I will be 38 years young this month. I'm also going "Coastal with Kenny". For my birthday my sis and I are going to the Kenny Chessney concert at the Usana July 9th.

What else could be going on in the month of July? Well, this little guy will be having surgery next week. As most of you know he has Spina Bifida which entails a lot of complications, two of which are a neurogenic bladder and bowel. What's that you say? Well, basically the message never gets to his brain that his bladder and bowels are full of waste because of the compromised spine. Catheterizations are routine, bowel treatments vary. Well Josh will be able to get an ACE (antegrade continence enema) which will allow fecal continence. Yippee! This little one is a trooper.

Lastly, for the month of July we will be venturing on our annual Navarro family campout!
We are very excited about this, as we love camping and being out in nature. So Jumpin' Jahosaphat
July is here and we are loving it.

Happy Mother's Day

My 5 "stripling warriors" spoiled me this morning! One brought me breakfast in bed, one cleaned the bathroom, and one folded the basket of laundry that was in my room. It's so nice that they served without being asked to. The two youngest drew and wrote special notes to me. It made me feel special and grateful to know that they love me. I am honored that the Lord would entrust 5 of his sons to me. I hope to honor him by continuing to raise these boys unto him. I am blessed.

Happy Mother's Day to all the wonderful mothers who love and give so much.
"She who rears successfully a family of...beautiful sons and daughters...deserves the highest honor that man can give, and the choicest blessings of God". - David O. McKay