Wednesday, July 24, 2013

The Big 4 - O!

I recently entered my fourth decade of living. My birthday was magical. It was wonderful. I started out the morning by driving to the Manti temple to see my friend Ka"trina" get sealed to her sweetheart. The drive was so peaceful and beautiful. The little city of Manti has a special feeling to it. The temple has an even more special feeling...I can't explain it. I truly felt like I was on sacred ground being in the Historic Manti temple. We got to walk up the spiral staircase to the sealing room . That was a sacred experience and one I can't share. Being in the sealing room was amazing and the words from the sealer awe-inspiring. It was neat to see the love in my friend's eyes for her husband. I felt honored to be there. I headed home after the temple and spent several hours with my boys. I opened their gifts and they sang Happy Birthday to me. We had Costco Key Lime Pie. Then in the evening I was to meet my sister Anna-Maria at PF Changs in Orem for dinner. Upon my arrival I was pleasantly surprised to see a booth with 3 extra people. I hadn't expected them, and it was so nice. I love surprises! We missed you - Heather, Bobbie, and Becky... maybe next year. We enjoyed delicious food and each other's company. After PF Changs , I was off to see The Sound of Music at the Scera Outdoor Theatre. What an amazing production! I got lots of gifts, cards, texts, and money for my birthday. I felt so special and so loved...ALL DAY!! I like to tell people 40 is the new 30 because I still feel young. Thank you everyone for making my day special! Love you! P.S. I almost forgot to mention that the Thompson's (our home teachers) brought over a bouquet of flowers and a chocolate cake... another surprise!

PF Changs

PF Changs

Manti Temple

Key Lime Pie (the circle of cream is supposed to represent the zero in 40)

Me with the 3 youngest

The bedspread is a birthday gift from my 14 year old. What a sweetie!

Flowers from the Thompsons



Wednesday, July 17, 2013

California!

Last week the boys, my dad, and I went to California to attend a funeral.
It was a very short trip, but we managed to squeeze in the beach one day.
We went to Zuma beach in Malibu. Driving down the 405 and 101 brought
back a lot of memories. Passing signs that read White Oak Ave., Sylmar, and
San Fernando took me back to my youth. I loved the palm trees, listening to the waves crashing on the shore, and driving through Malibu Canyon. My two youngest who had never been to the beach in their life had a blast. They were in HEAVEN at the beach.

I had a lot of time to reflect on my life- the entire trip - from the drive to California, to the visit at the beach, to the funeral. There's something about funeral services that always make me want to live my life better. I realized how much I have changed through the years, but also how I am still the same in some ways. For example, I still spend a lot of time fixing my hair. I have always fussed over my hair ever since I was a little girl and that will never change. What's different about me - I don't want the same things in a man - that I used to want. I don't give away my kisses freely, and I certainly am not a flirt like I was when I was a teenager. I treasure men who are respectful, kind, and have a pure heart. Although being attractive is a plus, it's not everything. I remember being at Wal-Mart and there was an extremely attractive single man behind me. I turned around to look at him and could feel my face turning red. My temperature started rising. I smiled at him and melted when he smiled back. Then I thought in my head, yeah he's gorgeous, but who is he inside. Of course, I didn't talk to him to find out, but I sure wondered. The "old" me would have flirted. The "new" me is more cautious and reflective. Bad thing - good thing? I don't know. By the way, if he was married I would have felt like a fool flirting with him because you know a lot of married men don't wear their wedding rings. That is one of my biggest pet peeves - married men not wearing their wedding rings. It gives the wrong impression and to me it's disloyalty. So married men out there...wear your wedding rings so us single gals don't look twice. Notice I said twice because we do look once...to see if there's a wedding ring. :-) Ok I am off my soapbox.

 As we drove into St. George, on the way back, the most beautiful rainbow filled the sky. I internalized what that rainbow meant to me, it's almost as if God was saying to me, "Remember the promises I made to you... have hope... carry on". To me the rainbow represents promises. The Lord promised to never flood the earth again and the rainbow is the symbol of that promise. The Lord has promised each of us things too, and he never forgets or changes his mind. The promises will be fulfilled in HIS time. I believe the longer the wait, the sweeter the reward will be. I remember a time when the Lord answered my prayers about my future husband by putting a song into my head. I was in the temple at the time and thought it odd that this "wordly" song would come as revelation. The words  that came to my mind were "And now you're love is my reward". There were more words, but  I won't share them. To me that meant that my future husband's love for me would be my reward. Finally- a reward-  for all the injustices, all the bitterness, and heartache. The reward of experiencing that kind of love will be SWEET.

The last thing to share is the class I am taking right now. It's called "How to Avoid Falling for a Jerk or Jerkette". I am learning a lot about relationships and what it takes to have a successful one. I laughed a lot during class, but also got some great information to apply to the relationships in my life. I am looking forward to next week's class. While I'm on the subject of classes - summer school is winding down. I am actually relieved. It's been tough, but I am going to make it.

Happy Summer!
This is the life!


Poser


Fun with the sand

Sand crab

The Mother

The eldest

Burying myself

Those waves don't scare us!

Bliss!



Sunday, June 16, 2013

The Big Day is Coming...

I am getting very excited for my sister's wedding this coming Saturday! She has waited a very long time and it's finally here. I am so happy that she is marrying a good man who is her best friend. I get to be her escort in the temple, since my mom is deceased. I get to help her in the Bride's room. I get to be apart of her special day in a special way. What an honor!

I am so eternally grateful for temples. The Temple is the House of the Lord where we can receive ordinances that bind us for eternity and where we can perform saving ordinances for our kindred dead. I am grateful that because of Jesus Christ's atonement I am worthy to be in such a sacred haven.

 Over the years, I have received much personal revelation and added strength for my life, as a single mother to five special boys because of weekly temple attendance. I have also been blessed to have received personal revelation about my "near-future" life that involves a righteous husband with a good heart, an eternal friend, and a wonderful posterity because of our union. I hope in those things to come and know that my Faith is only being tested in his Timing of it all. I want it now... He says wait a while longer. He knows best and I trust in that everyday. My knowledge of the glimspes He's granted me keeps me going. The Lord is so good to me and all of us.

If you want the mundane in your life to turn into extra-ordinary - go to the temple. If you want added spiritual strength - go to the temple. If you want peace that passes all understanding - go to the temple. If you want to be a better wife, husband, father, mother - go to the temple. If you want to feel an incredible source of LOVE and approval - go to the temple. We are all welcome. Get your life in order so you can bask in the blessings offered only there. Nothing else on this earth will offer you what can be offered in the Lord's Holy House. Until next time...

Enjoy some random pictures of recent events in our lives:

Cub Scout Day Camp
BB Gun shooting

Cub Scout Day Camp
Archery

The newest deacon of our family with the twins.

Naomi and Annabelle with their Aunt Katrina
I love these girls!

This deer likes to visit our backyard!

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Summer Vacation is Here!

Summer means ... unstructured play time, unscheduled days, slow down, time for conversations, late nights playing outside, ice cream, slushies, flip flops, long runs in the early morning, long walks in the evening, mowing the lawn, water balloon fights, drinking out of the hose, washing the car, sunburns, peeling skin, cub scout day camp, zions camp, bbq's, hanging with friends, hanging with cousins, camping, hiking, the canyon, the library, temple baptisms with my youth, temple mornings, homework, exams (yes, I am going to summer school), tubing on Utah lake, bike rides (I need to buy a bike for my birthday), OH and turning 40 this summer, a 15 year old, a 14 year old, Rexburg Idaho to visit Auntie La ...etc. etc.

 Enjoy your summer!

5/2013

Heather Wright (Thirkettle) and I at Nicole's Bridal Shower
We have known each other since we were 5 years old.

The Navarro Girls with Heather!
Good Times!